In the moments of ultimate realisation
Actions living despite de-tractions
Close ones go through separations
Cutting your community into sections
No one is there giving support
No one acting on what they taught
For the riches they’ve begun to sought
Is yours in a glimpse of a thought
The ego of many hurts you deeply
But if it hurts then humility isn’t free
For something to hurt then ego exists
Get rid of pain and give ego a goodbye kiss.
Everything around you becomes empty
Heavens’ darkness surrounds your entirety
For God realisation is not with the light
If you don’t believe it then your life isn’t bright.
God had created light and no one fears it
Everyone fears darkness when no candle is lit
It is in the darkness that the Almighty prevails
The Formless has lifted the light-filled veil.
Lots of love and God bless.
Rahul N Singh
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I admit it, I am scared to write sex as the title. This is possibly the first time I will ever talk about it openly in a blog message. So if you are below the age of 16, then read at your own risk. Also, if you are a goody two shoes and cannot see the word ‘sex’ then please do not read on.
I was asked in a comment about the physical side of relationships. Is it necessary? Of course, whoever tells you that love does not involve sex is wrong. They are misguiding you. They are going against the law of love. Love is a very spiritual feeling, a very special energy. However, how can you express that? It has to be done physically. The act of lovemaking is special. I am going to set two things straight, I do not believe in lust being the driving force in relationships. Lust is definitely a type of love. I agree. It is a form. However, if sex is what is making your relationship survive, then you better hope your face and body remains beautiful. It is a fact that looks fade away even with Botox. You have been warned!
First of all, let us establish sex. Now, if you are in a relationship, I believe sex should be discussed. Don’t be shy about it. It is a necessity. You are not in pre-school. You are grown ups. Discuss it. Or even better have sex. What are you waiting for? Just make sure you have protection. It is important to use contraception. But otherwise, hugging your partner, showing affection, showing that you care, kissing them is all necessary. It is all needed. Otherwise be ready for some hardcore accusations of infidelity!
The best advise I can give is give the kama sutra a try. It is possibly the most controversial book in my opinion. However, it celebrates sex. It celebrates that the way to show love physically is to have sex. Sex is also very spiritual. It sends vibrations. It is very powerful because of the love that is sent through your bodies. When the bodies connect and they are one, this is another type of meditation. Remember meditation is not sitting down in silence. Meditation is purely an energy that is present always.
I am sure right now, you are thinking these views are eccentric. Again, think with an open mind and you will understand what I am saying.
In terms of love being physical, it needs to be very physical and then it becomes spiritual. The physical is needed. You must embrace it. The physical must connect in a relationship for there to be a deeper meaning. Romance is exceedingly good when you accept the physical side. There will be an infinite amount of romance within you. Love is very spiritual. it is very special but for it to be felt, you need to let go of all inhibitions. That is why sex is celebrated because if done right then you are set free. It opens you up.
To be romantic, it is a black hole seriously. Once you are inhaled into the black hole then you will feel love. You will feel its emptiness. When love is empty it’s so much better. No matter how much love you put in, it shall never be filled. However, it will make you feel complete. This is the paradox with love. Love should open you up to infinite possibilities. So never limit it to physical, mental or spiritual. It is beyond it all.
Comment and I shall answer if you have any views. Or if you like it, tell me. Also, if there are any more topics you want me to write about, please do tell me.
Lots of love and God bless.
Rahul N Singh
The photo above is credited to Sabrina Campagna, the photographer has no relation to the post above.
Pain and sorrow darkened my days,
moments became bleak and shallow.
Deep regret poured into my vessel
of the love I once was intoxicated by.
I spent time alone on one thought,
that I thought about my last thought.
Realising the multiple domain of the mind
Where I confidently spoke to my own conscious.
Nature was changing and time was changing,
Your words became a scripture of the devil.
The devil that imprisoned me within myself
Had finally burnt my clouds of heaven.
Until one day I saw the angel again!
This time with another man
that made her smile and laugh.
My clouds of heaven rained on my hell.
My biggest victory was teaching her love,
showing her the depth of unconditional love.
Although she left me
with a subconscious bruised with hate for her.
I celebrate my ex finding love with another,
I know I had initiated that love within her.
Although I am the creator of her love,
I lost myself to the infinite realm of love.
Never be sad at knowing your ex-partner has moved on, you must realise that they are carrying the burden of your love always on their shoulders. The beauty of this only exists if your love is true and eternal.
Lots of love
Rahul N Singh
This is a beautiful picture taken by Angelina Archer. It shows the beauty of London. I miss this city so much and I have always taken a good walk on that very bridge.
The beauty of architecture is always enhanced by nature. Look at the sunset, the sunset defines the picture. It adds value to everything that is present. The best thing about nature is that it is complete. It gives and gives and only asks for us to look after it. We never appreciate nature as much as we should. Instead we are too involved in our emotions that we forget the beauty that is blissfully radiating around us.
If there are any topics you want me to discuss, just comment on here.
This is a reboot of some sort. I have been longing to write on issues. As usual, I am occupied with screenwriting but I believe that I can spare a good fifteen minutes to write on here. I am sure a lot of you are following me on Twitter and also are following my Facebook Fan Page.
As I announced today that I will be blogging again. I was asked to write about one-sided love. Now I am going to explore this and be as interesting as possible. But beware my views are eccentric. You won’t like my advise if you are not a free-thinker.
One-sided love, first of all does it even exist? If you have a crush on somebody, is it truly love? If it is love, why would you feel pain? Being in love is a good feeling. A positive feeling. A feeling that has no explanation for its existence. So if one-sided love does exist then surely you must feel good about it.
Now there is rejection. How do we take rejection? People feel suicidal, I advise them to go and commit suicide. They are already dead so there is no loss. Rejection should be taken with a pinch of salt. Every day is a new day. You was rejected yesterday, so try again today. Keep on failing. I always believe that the more you fail and learn to get back up, the stronger you become. Therefore, rejection is a positive outcome too. I always see that if I get rejected by a woman, there is nothing wrong with me. There must be something wrong with her. Is this view a little egoistic? A little bit but if my love is pure then the woman is stupid. If you are a woman and a man rejects your love then that man is stupid, he is cracked in the head. Rejection is a very good word. Hence, I like it. In the word ‘rejection’ the word ‘EJECT’ is present. So if somebody rejects your love, then simply eject the idea that you depend on that person’s love or eject that person out of your life.
I know somebody who is infatuated by a woman. He has loved her for over ten years, a decade. He has not even told that woman that he loves her. I think he is a madman. He must be crazy but he is very happy. I believe he loves the concept of that special woman that he finds perfect. I admire that but it is unpractical. When he finds a woman, he will not be very satisfied.
The biggest mistake is our attachment to entertainment. Movies, songs, art, poetry and books have created this false idea of sacrifice. You cannot sacrifice love. Love is beyond human sacrifice. One has to move on. Movies tell us that if we fight hard and that we believe then some miracle would happen and our love will magically fall in love with us. Remember, stories are made up. They are someone else’s imagination. They are someone else’s world. So get away from that. I will even tell you that sex is important in relationships. As much as love is very spiritual but that spiritual energy has to release and it is done by physical activity of love-making. Sex is not a physical exercise, it is moments of love. It is a prayer, a meditation. Society will not agree because sex is bad. If sex is bad then why are you living? You are the product of sex. Best advise is make sure you are protected.
Now, if you have been rejected or lack the confidence to approach the person you love. Or the person you love is being stupid and inconsiderate then meditate whenever you remember that person. Meditation is simply emptiness. Concentrate on nothing. Become nothing. This will help you. If that person comes into your mind then simply meditate or pray to your god.
Even with myself, I have failed in proving to the person that I love that my love is the best. No one wants to believe in the best unless you are free from the mind. Everyone will think they are the best but its mediocrity that is the highest regard for them. The person I love, I am sure she doesn’t even respect my love. But I respect my love. I love my love. If there is anything that I am possibly egoistic about, then that is my love. It is pure. It is purely spiritual. The love that exists within oneself has no limits, it is limitless. Fact is that I am a hopeful romantic not a hopeless romantic.
Love is meant to make you feel alive and if it is killing you then it is not love. That is a very simple notion. Love will revitalize the soul. It re-energizes the soul. Love will make you feel on top of the world. I have read that one must not fall in love but one should rise in love. You have been told to fall in love, this is wrong. You must rise. You must feel great. Love the fact that you are in love. Appreciate the emotion. Not many are able to feel love or be in love. In fact, most people who say they are in love know nothing of its meaning. Love is beyond the mind’s comprehension. It needs the heart not the mind. Love is not saying ‘I love you’. Anyone can say that. In love there is no ‘I’. Therefore, one-sided love has no existence. If you are in love then there is no ‘I’ or ‘Me’ or ‘mine’. It is a constant energy, it just plainly exists. So it is not ‘I love you’ it is beyond those words. No one can come close to the explanation of love.
These are the thoughts that I shall share. Thank you for reading and please do comment.
Lots of love,
Rahul N Singh