Sometimes your mind is blank and you don’t know what to say…today is one of those days for me. I don’t know why I even feel like this because I am happy today. The feelings that we tend to feel are the thoughts that we create.
It is weird how you can set targets and achieve them. I think it all matters about how much you believe in yourself. That is really important. Lots of people lose confidence and think that if they say something then they jinx it. You can only jinx it if you have jinxed it. Otherwise, nothing can be jinxed. It is all in the mind. Like everything else in this world. Even love is in the mind. Yeah, that is true. Love is all in the mind.
Now, the question or the criticism that I will receive now is ‘But don’t you feel love from your heart?’ No, you don’t. You think it in the mind and then that thought of love creates this energy and it just travels around your body. Now, the great thing about love is that you can share it. Share it and you will receive more. Now, it doesn’t mean people are going to love you more. Don’t be so pathetic. You will have more love within your self. The more you love others then more love you will have within you. That is the thing with love, you can spend it but not lose anything. It’s value remains. Hence, we have broken hearts than tend to never mend unless you meet like the most amazing girl in the world.
You know that is the great thing about being positive in life. You got to look at others and feel a great amount of love for them. Now, it doesn’t have to be sexual. But think about all those people you see on a daily basis. It could be the guy you see on the train everyday, the girl you see crossing the road at the same every day, the girl’s text message that comes through now and then, the people at work, all these people have lives of their own. Even though, they have no connection to you but you feel a strange connection to them. Imagine if you never see that guy on the train again? You would look for him, atleast subconsciously you would be. Anybody in this world can make you see things differently.
Before I must admit that I used to get agitated when people would have stupid beliefs and I would hate it. Now, I just agree and joke about it with like-minded friends. The fact is that the art of listening brings a lot to you. I love listening to people. Their stories, the excitement in their voices, their eyes that light up when they explain what they think about something. I feel so blessed to be there with that person at that very moment. Who cares if I don’t agree with what they say, the fact is that they find something in you to share what they feel with you.
There is a saying that ‘You can only carry on drowning in love’ and I think that is true. I might have made up that saying. I don’t know to be honest. I can’t be bothered to google it at the moment. The thing with love is that you can only drown, fair enough it may not be the same person that you love for the rest of your life but one thing will always be present and that is love. People will change but love can never change. Only the way we treat love will change. That is it! Only our perception of love changes but love doesn’t. The very people that cry that their love has gone from their lives, will find love with another girl and be back to normal. They will be back in their lover boy personas. They will be back with the statuses of ‘I loooooove youuuu!’ As much as that is cringeworthy but you got to understand the happiness. Love can never make you sad. Not even when you miss them. You cannot miss the person that you truly love. If you have love within you then that person is within you. So love should never be missed because it is always present.
This makes me often think about when I die. I know I am fascinated with death. But when I do die then the love cannot disappear because all it does is expand into this universe. How I do love the fact that I am eternal. Who cares about this physical body? Death can take me but it can never outlive me!
Live your life with the maximum amount of love. Keep drowning in love. There is no end to it.
Here is a tune that I have enjoyed today. Trust me, if you listen to the lyrics of this song closely, it is amazing.
Rahul N Singh